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The Embodied Surplus™'s avatar

You frame invisible work as that silent phase where everything looks like nothing is happening like an x‑ray of what it’s like inside real change for high‑functioning women. Naming the need for an “exit” is brutal and clarifying at once, between quietly self‑erasing and deliberately building a life her nervous system will actually get to live inside.

Katie Buzas's avatar

Yes quietly self-erasing vs building sums it up. Thank you!

Erin Pyper, MSW's avatar

I appreciate you saying the quiet part out loud.